Whistling Dixie

800px-General_Lee_scale_modelMidnight, our sons and daughters
Were cut down and taken from us.
Hear their heartbeat
We hear their heartbeat.

– U2

I still remember the Christmas morning at my grandparents’ house in Waxahachie, Texas. I found one of these little guys under the tree: a remote-control model of the General Lee. And I was pumped! The Dukes of Hazzard was one of my favorite TV shows as a kid. I once busted my knee wide open pretending to be the Duke boys on my Big Wheel. They were, to me, the height of cool.

Of course, I was a kid, and I didn’t know from the Confederacy or the Civil War. I knew I was supposedly related to some guy named Robert E. Lee (that has since been debunked as a myth), but that was pretty much it. I hadn’t an inkling that the awesome design on my favorite car in the world (beside K.I.T.T., that is–it could talk, after all) actually meant something. I didn’t know what racism was, or slavery, or prejudice and discrimination. Jim Crow would have sounded like a storybook character to inexperienced little me. I had no idea that I loved something that to many, many people was a symbol of hatred, fear, and inequality.

Now I know. But I still don’t often think about it. I still watch reruns of the Dukes without stopping to consider the underlying cultural message, one that still resonated, apparently, two years after I was born in 1977–112 years after the Civil War ended, and 114 years after U.S. slaves were (sort of) emancipated. It never occurs to me to wonder how my African American compatriots feel as they channel-surf past TVLand when they happen to have a little free time. How it may, for some, call into question the very idea of “free time.”

Why? Because I’m white. Which is more of a soporific than I often realize. Yes, it is structural, and no, I wasn’t around in the 1800s, nor did–as far back as I’ve gone, at least–any of my forebears own slaves. But the simple fact of my white-ness implicates me in a way I can perhaps ignore, but not in any responsible way deny.

I recently became angry with a couple of fellow bloggers (my sincere apologies to Ruth and Madalyn) when they suggested that I might be implicated in the politics of patriarchy and chauvinism simply by virtue of being a man, regardless of my personal stance on the issue. If you ask my wife, I think she will tell you that I am a fairly enlightened male-type person when it comes to feminist issues, but does that let me off the hook? Perhaps not so much as I’d like to think. I also consider myself fairly enlightened when it comes to racial issues: I grew up in Argentina, where they did to their natives what we did to our buffalo–literally; I belong to the local race relations committee (or I will, if they ever get around to cashing my membership check); I have worked in educational settings with minority youth of multiple backgrounds and ethnicities. There isn’t a racist bone in my body.

Except it’s not my body that matters. It’s the space my body inhabits, the system of which it’s a part, however innocently. I have never burned a cross; I have never donned a bedsheet or strung a noose. I haven’t turned away a job applicant because of his color or denied anyone the right to vote. I have never summoned up sufficient hubris to try and own a fellow human being. I have never done any of these things. But they are still a part of who I am, because they are an ineluctable part of my cultural milieu. They are, whether I like it or not, whether I even know it or not, mine by birthright. An ideological inheritance I have to acknowledge, painful as it may be.

I am white. Therefore, I am responsible.

I also think in a racialized manner. In this context, I don’t think there’s really a significant difference between “racial” and “racist,” no matter how many people tell me there is. I think it is a distinction born of collective guilt, of a certain helplessness in the face of systematized conceptual violence. We’re all of us whistling Dixie, and we’ve no idea how to stop.

When I was on that misson trip to the Carver Baptist Center in New Orleans, and made a conscious effort to interact with the people there in a way that would show them I “wasn’t a racist,” I implicated myself in my white-ness. As much as I rail against gentrification, I avoided the same neighborhoods as everybody else in Waco when I bought my house, never stopping to consider the fact that the very feasibility for me of that avoidance implicated me in my white-ness. I am implicated by the simple fact that I have never nor will I ever feel the stigma of minority identity. I will never look at the General Lee or the flag flying over the South Carolina capitol building with any other than white eyes, and I am implicated in my white-ness by that, as well.

I am white. Therefore, I am responsible. And I haven’t a clue what to do about it.

But perhaps that’s the beginning of comprehension, the first step toward a solution: I cannot understand. Not completely, by any means. And if I cannot understand, then how can I presume to be the arbitrator? So much of our society, our politics, is based on this misbegotten assumption of “understanding,” of comprehension we cannot possibly possess. Men want to regulate the sexual and procreative choices of women; heterosexuals want to define the family lives of the LGBT community; Christians want to limit the political participation of atheists, Muslims, and people of all other faiths (and vice versa–don’t think you can get off the hook that easily).

Whites want to decide whether African Americans should be able to look at the their own state institutions without the constant reminder of centuries of subjugation and injustice. Because we think we know better.

Am I a racist? I don’t believe so, but that’s not really the question. The system is, and that’s the real problem. I sit at the end of a timeline I cannot fathom, a history I can study but never truly understand. Because I am white.

And I am responsible…

4 thoughts on “Whistling Dixie

  1. I have had a few conversations about Rachel Dolezal lately. It’s made me think a lot about how we identify ourselves versus how others identify us. I’ve had so many conversations about young black women and men murdered by police the last few years. I’ve read stories of genocide and slavery and segregation in other countries. I’ve had to read them, because at most they get mentioned on the scroll of our 24-hour news networks. I have to go hunting for more information while they talk about a one-word soundbite from President Obama.

    I have friends and family that deal with racism on a daily basis. If my skin was as dark as some of my cousin’s, I may have those experiences too. But I don’t. I have conversations. I can scream and tweet and march and sign, but I will never live as they do.

    I can look back at the past few years and see how my views on race have changed. I held a few viewpoints that were racist. That’s hard to admit, but I was ignorant. I’m still ignorant. All I can do is be a good ally and listen to what is said. I have to do better in my own life and strive to spread that improvement.

    We are all racist. We are all sexist. They’ve done studies. Black people are prejudiced against other black people. Women are prejudiced against other women. I’ve never seen any study, but I’ve heard homophobic comments from queer people. It isn’t just our us vs them mentality, it’s the us versus us mentality. Of course, we’re all ‘us’ anyway.

    We are responsible for becoming less ignorant. Humanity will carry this responsibility for generations to come.

    I still remember the experience of a white professor, talking about what happened during a feminist club meeting when he was a student. He was the only male. A white student and a black student were talking about race’s role in feminism. The white student felt like race was insignificant, it was about equality for all. The black student disagreed and asked what the white student saw everyday in the mirror. The white student replied, “A woman.” The black student said, “See, there’s the difference. I see a black woman.” The professor relating the story said he chimed in a few moments later. He said he felt like something had finally clicked, because when he looked in the mirror, all he saw was a person.

    1. The shooting in Charleston is a game-changer for me. I’m tired of being a passive observer of cultural and social injustice masquerading as “headlines” and “senseless tragedies.” Don’t get me wrong: I’ve always had a strong sense of social justice, even before I knew what it was. But I have to accept the fact that my mere existence implicates me in the injustices I see around me. If I belong to the system, then I am responsible for it.

      I’m done with Mr. Nice-Guy. We don’t need babying; we need a collective slap in the face, and I plan to slap myself as hard as I can in the hopes that the ricochet might catch somebody else as well…

    2. BTW, I thought that first sentence said “I’ve had a few conversations WITH Rachel Dolezal lately.” I was fixin’ to be really impressed. Didn’t realize you were that connected… :o)

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